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    Relax: Take a Break from Technology and Outside Demands

    Vicki EstesBy Pamela KeeneJanuary 30, 20225 Mins Read
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    Each person only has 24 hours in a day. Experts say that how you use that time is ultimately determined by one person: you. By taking steps to find time to relax and unplug, you’re taking the first step to better care for others and opening the door to a new-found happiness.

    “Although it can often feel like we have no control over our lives, scientific research on well-being shows that small steps can make a profound impact on our mental health and emotional well-being,” says Cortland Dahl, Ph.D., chief contemplative officer at Healthy Minds Innovations, a nonprofit organization at the Center for Healthy Minds at the University of Wisconsin-Madison.

    “Yes, you have family and work obligations, but in reality you can begin to set limits and schedules to first take care of yourself. I’m not saying to completely abandon your responsibilities, but learn to be discerning about when you can make yourself the priority — at least part of the time.”

    It’s easy to fill time with demands of others and responsibilities to family, work or friends, but when it comes down to it, life’s busy-ness and stress could be holding you back. Technology adds to the equation, replacing real-time human interactions with quick, sometimes terse, messages.

    “The constant presence of computers, laptops, smartphones, instant-messaging, texts and emails can be all consuming and can provide an excuse for being too busy to be human,” Dahl says. “Twenty or 30 years ago, people knew how to ‘just be,’ enjoy time with friends or simply pass time without accomplishing a task.

    person sitting at a desk in a home office
    Working from home has become the standard for many. It becomes even more important to step away from your computer after hours to keep a healthy work and home life balance. Photo by Pixabay.

    “Now, we’re all judged on our accomplishments and activities, and we’ve become compulsive doers,” he says. “Rather than reduce commitments to give yourself some breathing room, the human response is to replace the void with more activities. We are filling our lives with technology, devices and an endless stream of activities.

    “Think about what happens first thing in the morning. Most people reach for their phone and scroll through their newsfeed and messages.”

    “People are getting lost in doing or constantly being busy as a way to measure their success,” says Katie Sandler, The Impact Coach. “Chilling out, just taking a break, goes against our programming to be going nonstop to prove their value.”

    Sandler offers her clients ways to unplug. “Be present in the here and now, and be aware of your mood and surroundings,” she says. “If you feel stressed, it’s time for a break to slow down, just take a walk or sit quietly. It will be difficult at first, but the more you practice, the better you’ll feel.”

    Unplugging from technology will create time to focus, identify the stressors and take a positive action.

    “I call this process ‘setting the intention,’ committing to break the cycle of stress by taking time to formulate your thoughts and decide what you want the outcome to be,” she says. “You have the control, but you must set the intention to make the change happen.”

    Sandler’s word for making time for yourself is to “steal” it. “Literally grab that time for you, which will mean taking it away from someone or something else,” she says. “At first, when you schedule that 10 minutes on Tuesdays and Fridays, you may not keep the appointments. But you’ll see it on your calendar as a reminder that you made a decision. The following week, you may switch the days or only make one of those appointments, but you’ll get closer to giving yourself this time. By the third week, you’ll begin to appreciate that appointment and maybe even anticipate what you want from it.

    “After a while, it will become a habit, and you’ll schedule other obligations around your ‘me time.’ You’ll be surprised how much better you will feel once you’ve recognized that you are important and deserve your own time each day.”

    When technology can help

    Technology has its benefits, particularly in accessing positive tools. Healthy Minds Innovations  has researched the effects of unplugging on people’s moods and has developed a free app to lead participants through practice sessions and meditations that can help reduce stress, increase focus and put unplugging into practice.

    Based on practicing various types of meditation, the app walks participants through practical ways to learn connectivity with other people, turn down the noise of life’s demands and learn to periodically unplug — except for the audio of the app.

    woman laying down with eyes closed and headphones in ear
    There are many apps and websites that can be a tool to help learn relaxation and meditation skills. Photo by Healthy Minds Innovations Univeristy of Wisconsin.

    Most of the sessions are brief, 10 to 15 minutes, and can be accomplished anywhere — at work, at home or even on the go, during a short walk or  simple chore. Dahl recommends tapping into the app daily.

    “Our studies have shown that when people prioritize their own well-being, they’re happier,” Dahl says. “The world will never stop giving you things to do. It’s up to you to create time to recharge your battery, take a step back or do nothing. It will revitalize you. Just give yourself permission to let go.”

     

     

    Journalist Pamela Keene writes for more than a dozen publications across the country, specializing in travel, lifestyle, features and gardening. Based in Atlanta, she is a photographer and an avid life-long gardener.

     

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